It is likely that there has been a decrease in sexual relations with your spouse if you are presently reading this. There seem to be a couple of different categories of problems in this area and degrees of severity. The list below will list the different types of problems that can occur, followed by a detailed explanation and proposed solution for each. If you find that the problems are cross-pollinating, then you should of course customize your response to your spouse. Each of these is generally from the perspective of a man hoping to be intimate with his wife. We hope that there are females out there who can describe the reverse situation.