If you are accused by your spouse of abusing the children often this can be simply a disagreement over the appropriate level of discipline. This area will of course be subject to how each of you grew up. The reality is that the way you grew up was probably less than perfect if you are here searching the Internet for how to save your marriage. Don’t pass that legacy on to your children.

If you find that your children continually act up and eventually you are just snapping, then it is time to learn some parenting techniques. Parental classes may actually do you some good. Some of it can be a bit warm and fuzzy, but there are also practical tips available in such classes. There is a popular television show called Super Nanny which may provide you some benefit as well.

The “Total Transformation” program may work for some children that are particularly difficult to manage.

If you beat your kids, then stop. Nuff said. Think about what you are doing or go pick a fight with someone bigger than yourself whom you know will win to serve as a reminder to yourself not to beat your kids.

If you are sexually abusing your children, this site can’t help you. For heaven’s sake - get professional help today.