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    • CommentAuthorokkidd
    • CommentTimeMar 4th 2008
     
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    My wife moved out 3 days ago. Her new roomates are two guys (that is messing with me alot more than I like to admit). I will admit- I am the reason she left. We have only been married for 7 months, she tried as much as she could; which was much more than I would have. She still loves me, I know that she does and she wants to be with me. She tells me that ' she wants to be my wife, she just wants me to be her husband'. I know 3 days isn't long but its long enough to know she doesn't plan on coming back anytime soon. I am so afraid that the longer she is gone, it is just a matter of time before the phone calls get less frequent and, eventually, we will not have time for each other. I love her. I just didn't know how.
    • CommentAuthorshohn
    • CommentTimeMar 5th 2008
     
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    • Joined: Nov 1st 2006
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    Start fasting... get right with God brotha like you never have before in your WHOLE life!

    I can't tell you not to panic. I know you know not to panic but man those pesky emotions get the best of us don't they! Relax...

    she wants to be my wife, she just wants me to be her husband - GREAT NEWS! Translated into manese that means she is going to watch and see if you can control your emotions and work on the changes she wants you to make before she returns.

    Ask her what changes that she needs.. send a 3rd party if you must .. perhaps an old female friend to translate what your wife is asking of you so

    In your prayers... pray blessings on her.... BLESSINGS! Look at rejoiceministries.org and get on stop divorce radio if you have a computer.

    Also, this is something to understand... at least in my walk I've found that sometimes before the prayers get answered it will require a little bit of effort on your part, and most importantly trust. It is counterintuitive in so many ways.

    Perfect love casts out all fear. Fear is coming from the dark side... She told you she loves you and you know it. Keep repeating that. Absence makes the heart grow fonder! Counter intuitive.

    In your communications sound confident - do something different. It is good that she hasn't cut off communications. You may have to start with a date or two and start treating her like you did when you were dating.

    Read my story and don't make my mistakes - your marriage depends on it! If you freak out.... it backfires every SINGLE time!
    • CommentAuthorgen2653
    • CommentTimeApr 8th 2008
     
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    that she still loves you is awesome..... now bring god in your life and learn how to love her as god loves us all..... as hard as it is.... do not prey on her living with the guys...... instead make your conversations general as if you were just dating..... and gain control of your emotions (jealousy).... you will most definitly need control... try .... as hard as it is to HOPE FOR THE BEST AND EXPECT THE WORST.... just focuse on changing yourself.... all other emotions aside..... and make it known by your actions...... very very important

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